How to Give a Sensual and Sexual Massage to Get Her in the Mood
Giving a sensual massage is a wonderful way to both give and receive pleasure. Giving your partner a long massage is a great way to relax your lover. It also takes you out of our busy life and into our bodies and pleasure as well as putting you both of you in a sensual mood.
A massage table makes the best way of giving a sensual massage. However, a bed or your living room is good too. Make sure you put down some towels as you need to use massage oil on the body.
Next put on some new age music or classical music to create the mood. One needs at least 1 hour to do a good sensual massage so do not rush. The room should be warm so your partner can be totally naked and not get cold. The slower and longer you take to give the massage, the happier your partner will be.
The best way to start the sensual massage is to rub your hands together. This warms up the hands as no one likes cold hands for a massage. It is good to place the massage oil in hot water to warm up the oil too.
One can start with some long strokes with no oil down from the head to the toes. I usually start with my lover on her front. Touch very lightly so you are just touching the hairs of the body. I like to use fur or feathers to start the massage.
Blowing can be very sensual, Try blowing from the toes up the legs, over the genitals and stomach to the head. I usually do this a few times. Later on in the massage when it is more sexual, I open the buttocks and blow on the anus. Everyone I have tried this stroke with just loves it.
Next place some oil on your hands and massage the back with long, easy strokes. It is best not to talk during the massage so the time is quiet and peaceful. One can be behind the head and stroke down the back near the spin and back up the sides.
Start any strokes slowly and then once the body has warmed up and relaxed, one can increase the pressure. Next, one can knead the flesh around your lover’s shoulders and neck using your thumb and forefingers. Most of us hold a lot of tension in our neck and shoulders.
Massage the legs and arms and do not forget the fingers or toes. Sucking the toes and fingers can be very erotic.